Do you happen to remember the order of the Bows in your show?
If so, Can you please list them?

Fiddler
Children/Teenage girl ensemble members
Bottle dancers (Excluding The Rabbi's son.)
Adult women ensemble members
Adult men ensemble members
Russians
Grandmother Tzeitel, Frumah Sarah, Shaindel
Avram, Constable, Rabbi, Rabbi's Son
Lazar Wolf, Yente
Fyedka
Perchik
Motel
Schprintze, Bielke
Chava
Hodel
Tzeitel
Golde
Tevye

Ensemble
Dancers
Avram, Rabbi, Rabbi's Son, Lazar Wolf
Constable, Fruma Sarah, Grandmother Tzeital
Schprintze, Bielke
Fyedke, Chava
Perchik, Hodel
Motel, Tzeital
Yente
Golde
Tevye
We ended with everyone in the cast acknowledging the orchestra, then the Fiddler, who is on the roof at this time.

I think that was everyone...

Why did Shaindel get to be in a group?

The all-important gossiping woman has more lines than her, anyway.

Ensemble
Russians
Rabbi, Motel, Avram... other soloists/recognizable villagers (you know...the ones with lines...I don't remember their names)
Grandma Tzietel, Uncle Mordechai, Fruma Sarah (the ghosts)
Lazar Wolf
Yente
Tzeitel, Hodel, Chava, Shprintze, Bielke (group bow...then...)
Motel & Tzeitel
Perchik & Hodel
Fyedka & Chava
Golde
Tevye

and we all acknowledged the Fiddler (who was on the roof)

I think.

I dunno.

Usually its

Ensemble
Constable,Fruma,Granda Tzietel,Shaindel
Schritze,Bielke
Avram,Mordcha,Fiddler
Rabbi,Mendel,Fydeka
Perchick Motel
Lazar,Yente
Tzietel,Hodel,Chava
Golde
Tevye

If I had to guess I'd say it's because although Shaindel dosen't do much of anything, she's still a "character" in the sense that she has a relationship with Motel whereas the Gossiping Woman is just there to advance the plot and allow the other characters time to make a quick change. (No offense.)

I know, I just have to get my diva out somewhere.

(And actually, we're the ones who have to be onstage in a different costume about 30 seconds after the dream is over.)

The change is for the wedding, right? (I haven't been in Fiddler since last November .)

Either way, that change was always KILLER. Especially for me...For some reason I was in the scene right before the wedding, supposedly "picking up fabric" from Motel or something. So after I calmly walked off stage with a smile on my face and swatches of fabric in my hands, I'd basically sprint back to the dressing rooms to change into my bottle dancing outfit in less than a minute. The bottle dancers were the only ones who had to change for the wedding, but for some reason the director didn't put someone else in the scene right before it. I quickly learned that I had to layer my clothes if I wanted to make that change, or put on a new pair of pants here and there, etc.. Ugh.

It goes Dream -> Street/Motel's Shop -> Wedding.

I don't know what the Street-Wedding costumes will be, but I know there is definate quick changing for the people in the Street, becuase we only have Teyve and Golde's little reprise to get out of our dream-wear.

Shandel is Motel's mother, played by Stella Courtney in the movie. Both she and Golde led Tzeitel into place under the canopy beside Motel. Her only dialog: When Motel was about to dance with Tzeitel, Shandel called his name in a shocked tone. Motel ignored her; clearly emboldened by Perchik and Hodel, then Tevye and Golde dancing together, he charged ahead.

she also has a line leaving the tailor shop

"whats wrong with my boy motel!?" or something like that.